While polarization and the lack of civility are rampant at the national level, HCLS’ "Choose Civility" initiative plays a critical role in addressing these tensions locally. Partnering with more than 100 organizations from all sectors in Howard County as well as seven chapters and three affiliates across the United States, "Choose Civility" fosters civil discourse, bridges divides and finds opportunities to build community, thus strengthening HCLS’ role as a community leader and change agent.

HCLS was the first public library in Maryland to host a Human Library, an international initiative where real people (books) are on loan to readers, and a place where difficult questions are expected and answered. Living books were "borrowed" by customers with a goal of dispelling stereotypes. Similarly, HCLS was the first library in Maryland to host The Longest Table, an event to build new relationships, encourage conversations and increase engagement around community issues.

HCLS’ Human Library attracted more than 200 readers of 15 books, including immigrants, members of religious minorities, transgender people and veterans. Designed as a welcoming, inclusive, non-partisan space, the event challenged stereotypes and prejudices through dialogue. HCLS’ The Longest Table brought 320 people together for dinner and conversation at one very long table. Table hosts and pre-printed questions on table runners sparked conversations among guests, who were randomly seated with people from different perspectives.